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  1. Tammy Gonzalez on January 16, 2019 at 11:27 am

    Well, I wrote what I felt was a good “comment” lol, however, it didn’t go through m.
    So, now, I’ll quickly say that I was there and saw and heard your “What I’m believing God for” speech before you were baptized a couple weeks ago. I was thrilled and excited with you. I am eager to see the transformation in you. I already see the effects!

  2. Tammy on January 16, 2019 at 11:08 am

    I didn’t have it from either of my neglective and abusive divorced parents. In fact, I only felt love from one person growing up.
    I still suffer today from it…Gosh! Why is it so hard! I’m thinking enough is enough, especially at my age! It’s been a slow healing process but I know with God…
    Trust is an issue too. “Everyone leaves” is a continual…fear? I’m learning, however, to tear down walls that I have erected for protection and am feeling more freedom from their bondage. I’m getting much better at not feeling unworthy (in the right sense here) as much as I use to. I’m growing in the knowledge of His love for me and accepting it!! I’m also realizing that He’s the one that I must look to for complete love. I will always be let down by my expectations from others and that’s okay. I’m sure I’ve let people down too. I’m trusting God to allow myself to transparently be open and vulnerable and to also trust people again, and how wonderful, He gives me discernment.
    I am so thankful that God gave me an ability to love despite everything!
    Jeff, I was there and saw your baptism a couple weeks ago and I heard your “What I’m believing God for” speech. I was thrilled and excited for you. I am looking forward to seeing the transformation in you. I can already see the effects!
    Once again, I’m so thankful God brought our families together. What a rollercoaster ride it’s been since Meadow Baptist!

  3. James gray on January 13, 2019 at 10:00 pm

    I can indeed relate. I am so grateful to the Holy Spirit for changing my heart. I have released the hate and bitterness. May God richly bless you as you serve Him

    • Jeff on January 14, 2019 at 9:47 am

      Yes! So good to hear of His work in you, James. Blessings to you!

  4. Pam V on January 9, 2019 at 5:33 pm

    Unfortunately, I Am one that can totally relate.

    • Jeff on January 11, 2019 at 11:07 am

      Run with all us other love-stutterers, Pam. We can win.

  5. Doug Lyle on January 8, 2019 at 3:03 pm

    As one who has known you from your beginning, I think you’re very fluent in the language of love.


    • Jeff on January 11, 2019 at 11:06 am

      I would call that beautiful bias – and I will receive it today. love you, dad.